When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. (Jennifer)

Social Status Wars

Posted on April 28, 2009 by Wilda

Imagine yourself walking down a crowded street, say someplace in beautiful San Francisco, and maneuvering through oncoming tides of passersby. Some people move aside to let you pass, others you walk around. Occasionally there are times when you almost bump into someone, then pause for a moment in front of each other before simultaneously turning and edging sideways while muttering apologies especially evident when it happens in a narrow doorway or a hall . How do you know that one person will move out of your way, while another one will keep walking right into you. By rapidly and unconsciously evaluating the status of passersby relative to your own. All human interactions are governed by the continual adjustment of status. Status is the currency of human communication. Status is a relative measure - to gain higher status I can increase mine or decrease everyone else s. Most people are constantly and unconsciously engaged in status wars and are highly skilled at it. Such wars can be fought for either a higher status natural leaders or for a lower status victims ...

Keep Your Mind Where Your Body Is: Practice Daily Exercises To Achieve Awareness

Posted on March 8, 2009 by Rodrick

Being fully aware brings together your spirit, mind, emotions, and body. And awareness is inherently expansive; it grows whenever you grant it the opportunity. Therefore, awareness is dynamic and constantly probing the edges. Keeping your mind where your body is--being fully aware--is a noble and sane way to live. Krishnamurti told a story about a man who came to see him to discuss his problems. A beautiful butterfly flew into the room and circled several times. The visitor was so self-absorbed that he never saw the butterfly. This tells us that, in the absence of awareness, self-absorption can run rampant. People often refuse to see this simple truth: happiness, wisdom, and vitality can be as simple as the present moment. Awareness is the key to knowing this simple truth. Methods to develop awareness in your daily life Awareness is your power to live in the now--the connecting point of God truth reality and the doorway to a rich and purpose-filled life. Vernon Howard defines awareness as having your mind present with your body during the activities of daily life...

How Do You Lose Butt Fat?

Posted on February 1, 2009 by Fredricka

There are many names for what people know very well as the rear end. Some of these are buttocks, behind, bum and buns. Believe it or not, how it looks like tells people about the physical condition of the individual. If the person wants so to have a cute butt to show off and not have one bulging with fat, here are a few exercises that people will find useful. A Dead lift The individual will stand with feet apart with toes pointing out and hands clasped together in front of the pelvis. The person will then bend the knees forward from the hips. Some people make the mistake of bending the spine so it is best to do this exercise in front of the mirror to make sure it is straight. The butt should be sticking out and then the legs come back to an extended position. Kneeling kickbacks The individual will kneel with one leg on the ground while the other is extended into the air. This should be lowered and repeated with the same thing being done to the opposite leg. A Pelvic lift This begins with the person lying down on the floor. While the knees are bent, the buttocks...

Haunted By Your Past? Why Healing Your Past Will Allow You To Get And Keep Your Life On Track,

Posted on December 28, 2008 by Tricia

Just think of the last time something just slightly bad happened to you and how it ruined your day. Like getting a speeding ticket, or having an argument with your best friend. How much energy and time did you spend worrying about what happened. How many times did you tell the story of your ill-fated experience, over and over again, to anyone who would listen. Or, how hard did you try to conceal the truth from everyone, even yourself. I m not here to tell you it s wrong to spend time thinking about the bad stuff that s happened to you. In fact, it s completely normal. But when the bad stuff gets in the way of creating a productive, happy life of your choosing, it may be time to discover how the experiences you ve had in your life play a role in how you view yourself and the world around you today. I m not a therapist but I am someone who worked hard to get her own life on track and to get there I had to sort through my share of past issues and old wounds. Therefore, I speak solely from personal experience when I say: If you have issues from your past that you haven...